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If you’re after more anal sex reading, here’s another general guide on how to have anal sex that covers douching, communication, lube and some other stuff. Most of these gay sex positions are anal sex positions, but there are some non-penetrative sexual positions at the end too. Whoever said physics was boring? Anal sex positions If you’re a tall man and the guy you’re having sex with is much shorter, you’ll be able to fuck in positions that a pair of beefy fellas wouldn’t find comfortable.Īt the end of the day it’s all about angles, different levels of flexibility and being able to hold or change positions. And for once, we’re not talking about cocks. What works for you and your partner/s will depend on your shape and size. This guide to the four most accessible – and we reckon most pleasurable – gay sex positions will help get you started.īefore we get stuck into how to stick it in, we’d always condone safer sex and recommend you read our guide to PrEP, and always use condoms when having sex. But where to start? What feels best? How do you gay men have sex? So we need to bring those two things together because the potential for harm is very high for people doing it.As anyone who’s ever had gay sex, thought about gay sex or watched gay sex will know there are endless combinations possible gay sex positions. ‘They tend not to approach sexual health clinics because they think sexual health services don’t know anything about drug and drug services won’t know anything about sex. So it’s perfectly common for a gay man for everyone they know to be involved in it. But it’s very concentrated in big cities and in particular groups of friends and social networks. 42% of men living with HIV felt alcohol/drugs played a part in getting the virus.ĭr Hickson told GSN: ‘Nationally, chemsex isn’t very common.7% have taken mephedrone, GBH/GBL and/or crystal meth in the past four weeks.A third of sexually active gay men had unprotected anal sex with at least one non-steady partner in the past 12 months.But a quarter of gay and bi men had never had an HIV test.55% have tested in the past 12 months, up from 36% in 2010.77% of gay and bisexual men have been tested for HIV, up from 72% in 2010.And it may be that at that age, they have a high desire for sex but less access to it, while over 65, that desire tends to wane. Men in their 40s are often less happy with their lives. Why gay and bi men are less happy with their sex lives in their 40s is not clear. People are also concerned about picking up and passing on sexual infections. Other reasons are ‘I’m not having enough sex with the person I’m with at the moment’ or wanting more sexual partners. The most common reason for people not being happy with their sex life is ‘I’d like a boyfriend or a lover or a partner’. ‘That’s why sexual health organizations are starting to talk about “the best sex with the least harm”.’ He told GSN: ‘Reducing HIV or any other sex infections isn’t a success if you make people miserable in the process. These are the proportions of gay and bi men who are happy with their sex lives, according to their age group:ĭr Ford Hickson, lecturer in health promotion at the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine lead the study of 15,360 men for Sigma Research on behalf of UK sexual health charity Terrence Higgins Trust. That’s according to the biggest sex survey of gay and bi men in England, out today. Gay and bi men aged over 65 are the happiest with their sex lives and, in general, satisfaction seems to grow with age.Īnd there’s good news for anyone diagnosed with HIV too – you are just as likely to have a happy sex life as people who are HIV negative or don’t know their status.